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I was dating a HB8.5 Atlantan girl for a month or two and felt close to her. While things were great most of the time, I eventually had to break up with her. Her selfishness and tiring mannerisms got to me. I had to quit. I made the break with her late last month. Since then, I’ve noticed approach anxiety come back, flirting and bantering skills have diminished, and a general lack of positivity when dealing with women and surroundings. Maybe I cared more for her than I lead myself into believing.

I didn’t have a lack of power in the relationship, I was never a “wussy” nor was I broken up with. However, I think relationships take their toll on my game simply because I’m not active in the pursuit. In my mind, the proper solution would be to hit the ground running and practice, practice, practice. It’s depressing to come the full circle and once again back to near AFC in skills. Just like with muscle gain, the learning curve won’t be as dramatic, but it’s still there to large degree. That’s what I’m going to do, starting with two dates this weekend, one a HB9 half-latina, and another a HB8 musician girl who I’ve been decent friends with over 2 years. I think… I’m heading down the correct path to full recovery. Just need to start approaching more instead of relying on my social circle.

How do you guys cope after a break up, and what are your solutions to those guys who are in a similar circumstances?

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