I think you are misunderstanding not only the opportunity with using Social Networking sites but also the purpose.

I do not propose meeting women online over meeting women in person…I propose you do both. Think about it, at any given point in time there are more women online than there are in every bar in your city combined. And guess what? These are the same women you meet out at bars, clubs, bookstores and coffee shops. The girl next door, the hot bartender, that cute girl standing in line at Starbuck’s today are all online. Why in the world would you pass up on such a huge opportunity?

On top of that you can search through these women and filter it down to exactly the type of girl you like. It is like going to your local bar/bookstore and it being filled with the exact type of girl you like. It’s awesome.

It is a great supplement for guys who are already good and a great way for guys who are super shy to get started because the interaction is in slow motion allowing them the time to think of what to say and form good banter habbits. For people who work a lot or travel for a living and it is hard for them to get out this is a great way to meet lots of high quality women.

In fact, this is my second night in NY ever and I had a girl from MySpace come over and hang out with me last night because I was busy working. It was awesome!

There are literally so many good benefits I can’t list them here…ask Donovan or check out our site if you want to know more: http://www.windowshoppingforwomen.com/sc

cheers,

Race

Facebook should at most be a tool to keep or build interest with girls that you were unable to have sex with owing to some logistical problem in real life. Spending time looking for friends of your friends that are distant enough from them that they won’t care you want to hook up with them, and close enough that your connection will matter for them to talk to a guy that didn’t have enough balls in person is absolutely retarded.

The guys marketing social network pickup are just taking advantage of nerds and other losers that don’t have the guts to do things in person.

Also, if you’d like, check out my article on How to Meet Girls on Facebook.

Most naturals I know bang most of their chicks like this.

Only need guys have a phobia of “ohmigod, what if that makes me look neeeedy!!”…

chill… detach from shit, and no matter what you do comes across cool…

Peace

Back when I got so good at online dating I was voted the “Best in Boston” on a dating site (not the proudest day in my life), everything I did was based on finding connections with women. Find what she likes and what makes her feel good and comfortable and relate to it. No arguing. No heavy flirting. And for god’s sake, NO cocky and funny.

Online dating, be it Facebook, Match, or anything else, comes down to her feeling there’s enough safety and commonality with you to make it worth the risk.

But you have taken it a very important step farther by establishing the friendship connections. Girls, esp. young girls, are very wary of dating anyone they don’t know thru friends. It’s risky for them socially and physically, so if you can make connections through friends, you avoid all the legit reasons she has to not hook up with you.

I would add the caveat that you need to be consistently getting laid in real life for this to work, as getting you a date doesn’t do you much good if you can’t game.

Do you have some stats on how many times you’ve used this method, how many dates? rejections from friends? from the original friend you asked to set you up?

Any problems with the new girls/FB friends that you meet at parties etc telling your real friends that you’re doing that and getting weird rumors or talk about you? My friends (who are social people but non-pua type) would consider that creepy and stalkerish…especially the girls in the group….I’d hate for it to backfire

I’d say it’s about a 15% chance of securing a date without the setup, but with it’s about a 90% chance. Awkward moments? Sure, just as much as if you were to go on a first date with a girl you just got a number from a week before…

Knight – Facebook is near essential for this type of approach. Why? Because there is almost no way you would meet this newer girl or connect with your new “friend” through any other way. The key for this working well is because of the relaxed nature of Facebook.

Of course Knight, I’m sharing this method because I’ve found it works the most reliably. You can of course do a cold turkey approach.

Yes, many, MANY dates, not to mention additional attraction and comfort building. This is why I decided to do this post.

Do you think it’s possible to come across some girl’s profile, who you have no social connection to, and have success?