Comments on: What If A Woman Doesn’t Call Back? http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/ Tue, 27 Dec 2011 04:35:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Luke http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-58187 Luke Fri, 14 Oct 2011 01:01:54 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-58187 I am a 12 year-old boy and am just discovring about girls. So i overheard this girl saying that im cute to one of her friends. So 4 days later i asked for her phone number. She gave me her phone number so i have her mine. So i call her 3 hours after i get home from school and she dosent pick up. I wait half and hour and try again. She still didnt pick up so i leave her a voicemail. The second day i meet her in school and talked with her a bit. So when i get home i wait again 3 hours till i call her. I do so shes on the phone with another person. I think great this is a perfect, this is on her phone probably checking her voicemail right now. So i wait a couple mins till she gets off the phone and try again. SHE STILL DIDNT PICK UP. Im worried that she dosent have any intrest in me at all. Please help. I am a 12 year-old boy and am just discovring about girls. So i overheard this girl saying that im cute to one of her friends. So 4 days later i asked for her phone number. She gave me her phone number so i have her mine. So i call her 3 hours after i get home from school and she dosent pick up. I wait half and hour and try again. She still didnt pick up so i leave her a voicemail. The second day i meet her in school and talked with her a bit. So when i get home i wait again 3 hours till i call her. I do so shes on the phone with another person. I think great this is a perfect, this is on her phone probably checking her voicemail right now. So i wait a couple mins till she gets off the phone and try again. SHE STILL DIDNT PICK UP. Im worried that she dosent have any intrest in me at all. Please help.

]]> By: Tony http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-48038 Tony Mon, 26 Sep 2011 03:10:55 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-48038 An old female friend/girl friend and I started hanging out after not seeing each other for seven years. We talked for about 6 months before I took her out. I was reluctant to see her again because of how hard it was to get over her the last time...and getting over her two children. I've enjoyed the last couple times with her and her daughter. She cooked dinner and we watched movies. But...since the first time I saw her, I suspect she hooked up with another old flame whom she ran into the first night I took her out. Anyway....We talked for awhile last Monday, she seemed excited to hear from me although I just saw her that weekend. I tried calling her again on Thursday to see if she'd like to go out, just the two of us...if her daughter was with her father...but she didn't answer the phone. I suspect she is probably more into this other guy and is possibly going to phase me out. Should I wait to see if she calls me back? It's been three days. Or should I try calling her again? I want to ask her this: I need to know if you are pursuing something with someone else, if so tell me and I will back off. I really don't want to end the friendship we've rekindled but I also don't want to keep in contact if she is in a relationship. What should I do. I figure if I don't hear from her in a week or two I have my answer and will move on and forget her,,,as painful as that will be. An old female friend/girl friend and I started hanging out after not seeing each other for seven years. We talked for about 6 months before I took her out. I was reluctant to see her again because of how hard it was to get over her the last time…and getting over her two children.

I’ve enjoyed the last couple times with her and her daughter. She cooked dinner and we watched movies. But…since the first time I saw her, I suspect she hooked up with another old flame whom she ran into the first night I took her out.

Anyway….We talked for awhile last Monday, she seemed excited to hear from me although I just saw her that weekend. I tried calling her again on Thursday to see if she’d like to go out, just the two of us…if her daughter was with her father…but she didn’t answer the phone.

I suspect she is probably more into this other guy and is possibly going to phase me out. Should I wait to see if she calls me back? It’s been three days. Or should I try calling her again?

I want to ask her this: I need to know if you are pursuing something with someone else, if so tell me and I will back off. I really don’t want to end the friendship we’ve rekindled but I also don’t want to keep in contact if she is in a relationship. What should I do. I figure if I don’t hear from her in a week or two I have my answer and will move on and forget her,,,as painful as that will be.

]]> By: Da Maya http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-12246 Da Maya Sun, 10 Jul 2011 22:42:55 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-12246 Really up to - 4 calls to voicemail? Three is usually my limit, but a hot girl gave me her number at a bar without me asking for it, so maybe I will try 4. Really up to – 4 calls to voicemail? Three is usually my limit, but a hot girl gave me her number at a bar without me asking for it, so maybe I will try 4.

]]> By: Mike http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-8405 Mike Wed, 06 Jul 2011 07:57:01 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-8405 Guys its all about confidence I had a beutiful girl gave me her number and when I left her a message she didnt reply. I texted her twice after no big deal. Seen her at a club was nice and made a jok out of it... Now shes texting me. Guys its all about confidence I had a beutiful girl gave me her number and when I left her a message she didnt reply. I texted her twice after no big deal. Seen her at a club was nice and made a jok out of it… Now shes texting me.

]]> By: Pete H. http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-1183 Pete H. Wed, 23 Feb 2011 01:18:52 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-1183 My bad, bro. I forgot to tell you what I said in the voicemail. I said, "Hey, Alyssa, this is Pete, we met at Maloney's the other night. Give me a call back at 908-***-***." (Obviously, I don't want to give my actual number over the internet, but that's what I said after I heard the beep to leave a voicemail.) My bad, bro. I forgot to tell you what I said in the voicemail. I said, “Hey, Alyssa, this is Pete, we met at Maloney’s the other night. Give me a call back at 908-***-***.” (Obviously, I don’t want to give my actual number over the internet, but that’s what I said after I heard the beep to leave a voicemail.)

]]> By: Pete H. http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-1182 Pete H. Wed, 23 Feb 2011 01:09:02 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-1182 My friend and I went to a bar in central New Jersey last Friday night. I'll try to keep this as short and sweet as possible. My friend is more confident and successful with women than me, which is obviously the reason I'm sending you this email. He approaches two women sitting at the end of the bar and I remain in my seat about six feet away basically playing it cool because I was low on cash, a little buzzed, and worried about driving home past cops aching to hand out a DWI. Meanwhile my friend is sitting between the two of these women and slapping his credit card on the bar ordering a round of drinks. I didn't want to drink anymore because I had to drive his ass home. Then one of the women, a gorgeous Tara Reid looking blond approaches me, introduces herself to me, and asks about the black ink used as a marker on my right hand put there by a bouncer from the previous place we were at. "Is that a tattoo? Do you have any other tattoos?" "No," I replied. Before she approached me, I spilled my drink on the bar, and was laughing about the incident. "What's so funny?" she asks. "Oh, I'm just laughing about spilling my drink before so I'm just trying to process what took place." I was playing it cool acting uninterested in her thinking this would work to my advantage. She was playing with my hair and grabbing my right side. She asked how old I was because I guess my hair made me look young. "32," I said. "I'm 34," she said. Small talk followed. Where are you from? Where's that near? etc. She also asked how far away my house was from the bar. She pulls out a cigarette and asks me to go outside for a smoke. "I quit." "So, you can't even be around it?" referring to the cigarettes. "No, I don't care." I replied. She asks me to go to brunch with her on Sunday somewhere up in Jersey City, NJ to meet her sister, etc. "I can't, I have to work." "Work? What do you do?" "I work at a super market," I hesitated, "in a deli." Then I pretended to get up and walk away as I laughed and said , "Oh, now you're thinking 'I don't even want to be around this guy now, what a loser!" More trivial small talk follows and me feeling totally at ease, I look her straight in the eyes, and say, "Give me your number and if you're lucky, I might actually call you." She laughs, grabs a napkin, and writes the digits with a smiley face at the bottom of her number. My friend orders me a Guiness. Then she asks me if I want to go outside and get some fresh air. Now we're alone and she's talking about her half Spanish/Irish and Scottish ethnity just after she struggled to light her cigarette. I'm thinking maybe she wants to make out, but of course, I didn't do it. I could have, but I choked. I don't know why because I felt totatlly confident and cool around her. We go inside, the bartenders politely tell the last of us at the bar to leave, and I grab her, his her on the lips, and say, "Take care of yourself," as I turned around and left with my friend. Monday arrives, I finally call her at 11:00 am, with my heart pounding, hoping I would just get the voicemail as a reprieve. Sure enough, I get the voicemail, but there's no name. It's just the automated voicemail, so I'm thinking she might have given me a wrong number. I did however check the number on a reverse number lookup site and it revealed the number was in the area she said she was living. Well, here I am a day later, and no callback or text. What the fuck? Did I fuck up? Or is this natural just like my friends said about the woman not calling back right away? My friend and I went to a bar in central New Jersey last Friday night. I’ll try to keep this as short and sweet as possible. My friend is more confident and successful with women than me, which is obviously the reason I’m sending you this email. He approaches two women sitting at the end of the bar and I remain in my seat about six feet away basically playing it cool because I was low on cash, a little buzzed, and worried about driving home past cops aching to hand out a DWI. Meanwhile my friend is sitting between the two of these women and slapping his credit card on the bar ordering a round of drinks. I didn’t want to drink anymore because I had to drive his ass home. Then one of the women, a gorgeous Tara Reid looking blond approaches me, introduces herself to me, and asks about the black ink used as a marker on my right hand put there by a bouncer from the previous place we were at.
“Is that a tattoo? Do you have any other tattoos?”
“No,” I replied. Before she approached me, I spilled my drink on the bar, and was laughing about the incident. “What’s so funny?” she asks. “Oh, I’m just laughing about spilling my drink before so I’m just trying to process what took place.” I was playing it cool acting uninterested in her thinking this would work to my advantage. She was playing with my hair and grabbing my right side. She asked how old I was because I guess my hair made me look young.
“32,” I said.
“I’m 34,” she said.
Small talk followed. Where are you from? Where’s that near? etc. She also asked how far away my house was from the bar. She pulls out a cigarette and asks me to go outside for a smoke.
“I quit.”
“So, you can’t even be around it?” referring to the cigarettes.
“No, I don’t care.” I replied.
She asks me to go to brunch with her on Sunday somewhere up in Jersey City, NJ to meet her sister, etc.
“I can’t, I have to work.”
“Work? What do you do?”
“I work at a super market,” I hesitated, “in a deli.” Then I pretended to get up and walk away as I laughed and said , “Oh, now you’re thinking ‘I don’t even want to be around this guy now, what a loser!” More trivial small talk follows and me feeling totally at ease, I look her straight in the eyes, and say, “Give me your number and if you’re lucky, I might actually call you.” She laughs, grabs a napkin, and writes the digits with a smiley face at the bottom of her number.
My friend orders me a Guiness. Then she asks me if I want to go outside and get some fresh air. Now we’re alone and she’s talking about her half Spanish/Irish and Scottish ethnity just after she struggled to light her cigarette. I’m thinking maybe she wants to make out, but of course, I didn’t do it. I could have, but I choked. I don’t know why because I felt totatlly confident and cool around her. We go inside, the bartenders politely tell the last of us at the bar to leave, and I grab her, his her on the lips, and say, “Take care of yourself,” as I turned around and left with my friend.
Monday arrives, I finally call her at 11:00 am, with my heart pounding, hoping I would just get the voicemail as a reprieve. Sure enough, I get the voicemail, but there’s no name. It’s just the automated voicemail, so I’m thinking she might have given me a wrong number. I did however check the number on a reverse number lookup site and it revealed the number was in the area she said she was living. Well, here I am a day later, and no callback or text. What the fuck? Did I fuck up? Or is this natural just like my friends said about the woman not calling back right away?

]]> By: Bruce http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-1181 Bruce Sat, 27 Nov 2010 03:04:50 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-1181 Dave, Please excuse me for being long winded here! (with humor) Here is my situation. I have been out of the dating scene for quite a while. Last Friday night I went to the local karaoke (Bar) and met a lady. I was sitting at the bar like a bump on a log and had been looking at her (I didn't approach her several stools away because when I looked at her in the bar mirror I saw a ring on her married finger)--lucky for me she came over and said hello and we laughed about the married finger because it actually was reversed from the mirror and was really on her right hand! A cocktail or two later over the course of the evening I slowed danced with her ( 3 times and sang karaoke to her cheek to cheek--the old standards) and we both loved it and were hitting it off! I gave my card to another lady at the bar that was talking to us for the purpose of a job lead she mentioned where she works--silly me the woman was pretty drunk and I never heard from her later. My point is when I was giving my card to this other woman she said nicely --Oh can I have one? and I said sure! which I did. At an hour before closing the karaoke bar she said let's close out and go to her place as she only lived a couple miles away. We kissed on the couch and a little bit more (no big deal as clothes remained on) for 30 or so minutes and as she told me earlier in the evening she was going to the beach the next day with the girls so she had an early day. It was 2:00AM or so Saturday and she said that earlier at her place that she liked me and I said ditto. She said what would work best is to call her Sunday at 6PM when she got back. I called about 6:07PM and got what sounded like 2 people in a car, first a man answered and did not know a Tracy, passed the phone over to a woman and she didn't know the person and at the same time I did verified that I had called the number I was given. I had date ideas of what to do that night with Tracy but first effort did not pan out. Mentally regrouping and in a relaxed and calm fashion I called again at 6:22PM and got a female answering voice mail which either could have been the woman I just talked to her or it was Tracy? Dave, any comments or suggestions ( I'll send you a can of Almond Roca as a Thank you!--just kidding!) My plan is I met her week ago at the karaoke bar and so I am going tonight Friday, Saturday and maybe Sunday (I would be going any way regardless of the fact I met her because I am starting a new positive attitude of getting out there, making the effort and finding the ladies that like a slow dance while I sing (example) "The Days of Wine and Roses!" If I see her my plan is to be low key, nice and just let her know I did call last Sunday, I might even say I was just hoping she was OK. I might start up ( if I am lucky enough) with another lady there, but maybe I should be careful if she comes in until I find out what happened. If she doesn't come in I thought to give a call late Saturday AM for one more try? (maybe 1 or 2 more times as you have suggested spread out over every 3-4 days) Thanks for listening and look forward to your response. Regards, Bruce Dave,

Please excuse me for being long winded here! (with humor)

Here is my situation. I have been out of the dating scene for quite a while. Last Friday night I went to the local karaoke (Bar) and met a lady. I was sitting at the bar like a bump on a log and had been looking at her (I didn’t approach her several stools away because when I looked at her in the bar mirror I saw a ring on her married finger)–lucky for me she came over and said hello and we laughed about the married finger because it actually was reversed from the mirror and was really on her right hand!

A cocktail or two later over the course of the evening I slowed danced with her ( 3 times and sang karaoke to her cheek to cheek–the old standards) and we both loved it and were hitting it off! I gave my card to another lady at the bar that was talking to us for the purpose of a job lead she mentioned where she works–silly me the woman was pretty drunk and I never heard from her later. My point is when I was giving my card to this other woman she said nicely –Oh can I have one? and I said sure! which I did.

At an hour before closing the karaoke bar she said let’s close out and go to her place as she only lived a couple miles away.

We kissed on the couch and a little bit more (no big deal as clothes remained on) for 30 or so minutes and as she told me earlier in the evening she was going to the beach the next day with the girls so she had an early day. It was 2:00AM or so Saturday and she said that earlier at her place that she liked me and I said ditto. She said what would work best is to call her Sunday at 6PM when she got back. I called about 6:07PM and got what sounded like 2 people in a car, first a man answered and did not know a Tracy, passed the phone over to a woman and she didn’t know the person and at the same time I did verified that I had called the number I was given. I had date ideas of what to do that night with Tracy but first effort did not pan out. Mentally regrouping and in a relaxed and calm fashion I called again at 6:22PM and got a female answering voice mail which either could have been the woman I just talked to her or it was Tracy?

Dave, any comments or suggestions ( I’ll send you a can of Almond Roca as a Thank you!–just kidding!)

My plan is I met her week ago at the karaoke bar and so I am going tonight Friday, Saturday and maybe Sunday (I would be going any way regardless of the fact I met her because I am starting a new positive attitude of getting out there, making the effort and finding the ladies that like a slow dance while I sing (example) “The Days of Wine and Roses!”

If I see her my plan is to be low key, nice and just let her know I did call last Sunday, I might even say I was just hoping she was OK.

I might start up ( if I am lucky enough) with another lady there, but maybe I should be careful if she comes in until I find out what happened. If she doesn’t come in I thought to give a call late Saturday AM for one more try? (maybe 1 or 2 more times as you have suggested spread out over every 3-4 days)

Thanks for listening and look forward to your response.

Regards, Bruce

]]> By: glh http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-1180 glh Sat, 31 Jul 2010 01:13:39 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/09/17/what-if-a-woman-doesnt-call-back/#comment-1180 don't say dickhead shit, best tip don’t say dickhead shit, best tip

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