Comments on: This Is How To Eliminate Flaking and Get Those Dates http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/ Thu, 19 Nov 2009 05:18:20 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: LAZARO http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-6761 LAZARO Sun, 13 Sep 2009 07:43:47 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-6761 i had a really bad flank with a girl i just meet in the net we was talk for one week and we arranging to see each other on thurday night and a public place and we have great night that day we talk for cuples hours after that boths we went home and she call me the same night to tell me that is it was nice to se you and talking to me and we arranging to see each other again the next day and she agreed and then morning friday she text me to tanks for talk with her and i wont here from her to late afternoon to justified that she can't go out tonight with me because she forget to tell me that she has plan we her best friend that she don't see her for a long time and to tell me that don't call her because she was not carried her cellular and i seid don't worry it is cool have fum so i remained indifferent to the situation and calm but i feel so bad inside but i don't call her the next day same thats i don't hear from her. i had a really bad flank with a girl i just meet in the net we was talk for one week and we arranging to see each other on thurday night and a public place and we have great night that day we talk for cuples hours after that boths we went home and she call me the same night to tell me that is it was nice to se you and talking to me and we arranging to see each other again the next day and she agreed and then morning friday she text me to tanks for talk with her
and i wont here from her to late afternoon to justified that she can’t go out tonight with me because she forget to tell me that she has plan we her best friend that she don’t see her for a long time
and to tell me that don’t call her because she was not carried her cellular and i seid don’t worry it is cool have fum so i remained indifferent to the situation and calm but i feel so bad inside but i don’t call her the next day same thats i don’t hear from her.

]]> By: Pablo http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-6151 Pablo Thu, 07 May 2009 20:22:16 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-6151 I had a really bad flank with a girl from my university, we take some classes together and I called her on the week to tell her I was going to go to a bar where they play rock music and I she should come to have fun, on Friday night. She told me that we should talk near Friday to see how her schedule was coming so she could arrange her schedule... On Thursday I called her and told her "Hi I was arranging my plans for the weekend and as since I told you I was calling you back near Friday, I wanted to talk to you before I confirm anything, otherwise I arrange my plans and we talk another day" She answered with "Hmmm sorry, tomorrow is no good, I arranged to see a friend of mine I haven't seen in ages and also I am seeing someone else and on Saturday I depend on what I'll do with him"... Inside my head I heard a "Bang!!!" but I remained calm and just said "Hmm ok, I guess you don't like to have fun then... I'll make my arranges, see you" I knew nothing I said would make things different so I remained indifferent to the situation and calm, but inside it sucked. Thanks Pablo I had a really bad flank with a girl from my university, we take some classes together and I called her on the week to tell her I was going to go to a bar where they play rock music and I she should come to have fun, on Friday night. She told me that we should talk near Friday to see how her schedule was coming so she could arrange her schedule…

On Thursday I called her and told her “Hi I was arranging my plans for the weekend and as since I told you I was calling you back near Friday, I wanted to talk to you before I confirm anything, otherwise I arrange my plans and we talk another day”

She answered with “Hmmm sorry, tomorrow is no good, I arranged to see a friend of mine I haven’t seen in ages and also I am seeing someone else and on Saturday I depend on what I’ll do with him”…

Inside my head I heard a “Bang!!!” but I remained calm and just said “Hmm ok, I guess you don’t like to have fun then… I’ll make my arranges, see you”

I knew nothing I said would make things different so I remained indifferent to the situation and calm, but inside it sucked.

Thanks
Pablo

]]> By: johannes http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-5773 johannes Sun, 01 Mar 2009 22:42:45 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-5773 I was at Starbucks a week ago, a nice girl arrived to the table left of us, as she sat down she gave me eye contact for a long time, I nodded my head to say hello and continued talking with my friends. Our eyes meet a couple of times more and when she was about to leave I could see she was hesitating, waiting. I turned my head to her.. and then she approached me. We talked for a couple of minutes and she also helped us with incident arising when my friend ordering a cup of coffee. After that we continued talking, I could feel she was really interested, this one is safe. I played it cool and just when she was about to leave I asked for her number, "just in case we need your help again" I told her. She was happy to give it to me and said she would like to see us again. She text me the day after and told me that it was an interesting meeting and that we should take a cup of coffee together. I replied that we should meet tomorrow. But she was busy, but she want to meet me another time just tell me the day. I called her the day after to set up a date. She agreed to meet me two days later. The same day we was supposed to see each other I send here a short message, just a cute SMS wondering how she was doing and confirm our date. She apologized and told me she could not come today and asked if it's was ok. I replyed: no problem, I see you on starbucks at seven. ;) Pretending that I did not reed this flake. No reply after this. I know my mistakes from reading your article. But now if I want to repair my mistakes and go out on a date with this girl, is there anything I can do without sounding like a wuss or a stalker? I was at Starbucks a week ago, a nice girl arrived to the table left of us, as she sat down she gave me eye contact for a long time, I nodded my head to say hello and continued talking with my friends. Our eyes meet a couple of times more and when she was about to leave I could see she was hesitating, waiting. I turned my head to her.. and then she approached me. We talked for a couple of minutes and she also helped us with incident arising when my friend ordering a cup of coffee. After that we continued talking, I could feel she was really interested, this one is safe. I played it cool and just when she was about to leave I asked for her number, “just in case we need your help again” I told her. She was happy to give it to me and said she would like to see us again. She text me the day after and told me that it was an interesting meeting and that we should take a cup of coffee together. I replied that we should meet tomorrow. But she was busy, but she want to meet me another time just tell me the day. I called her the day after to set up a date. She agreed to meet me two days later. The same day we was supposed to see each other I send here a short message, just a cute SMS wondering how she was doing and confirm our date. She apologized and told me she could not come today and asked if it’s was ok. I replyed: no problem, I see you on starbucks at seven. ;) Pretending that I did not reed this flake. No reply after this.

I know my mistakes from reading your article. But now if I want to repair my mistakes and go out on a date with this girl, is there anything I can do without sounding like a wuss or a stalker?

]]> By: CHRIS P MONEY http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-3192 CHRIS P MONEY Sun, 08 Jun 2008 22:43:38 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-3192 Don't sweat it just find a girl who has low self esteem and is a little bit down on her luck especially financially. She isn't in a position to be flaky or a bitch. Her clithes, hair and nails won't be up to par and she won't have a support system with the other flakes, free loaders and game players that 90% of women have. They mostly sit around scheming how they control the dating situation with men and will flake or stand you up for kicks and to power trip don't bother with them get a women who is not in a position to be a flake or a bitch. That is the answer! Don’t sweat it just find a girl who has low self esteem and is a little bit down on her luck especially financially. She isn’t in a position to be flaky or a bitch. Her clithes, hair and nails won’t be up to par and she won’t have a support system with the other flakes, free loaders and game players that 90% of women have. They mostly sit around scheming how they control the dating situation with men and will flake or stand you up for kicks and to power trip don’t bother with them get a women who is not in a position to be a flake or a bitch. That is the answer!

]]> By: ScottUA http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-654 ScottUA Tue, 28 Aug 2007 00:38:58 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-654 Hey Donovan~ Great article about flaking! I think this is improtant information for those guys who have trouble on the follow-up with women. You gave some REALLY useful advice to help guys prevent this from happening. ~Scott Hey Donovan~

Great article about flaking! I think this is improtant information for those guys who have trouble on the follow-up with women. You gave some REALLY useful advice to help guys prevent this from happening.

~Scott

]]> By: boyboy http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-653 boyboy Thu, 09 Aug 2007 21:25:59 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-653 What I like to do these days is set up an instant date right then and there. If I meet her at a club I'll invite her with me and my friends for late night food. If game her in the afternoon, I'll ask her to go somewhere with me. What I like to do these days is set up an instant date right then and there. If I meet her at a club I’ll invite her with me and my friends for late night food. If game her in the afternoon, I’ll ask her to go somewhere with me.

]]> By: Seduction Chronicles http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-652 Seduction Chronicles Thu, 09 Aug 2007 17:21:49 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-652 I had a cool flake about 2 months ago: Everything went really well and we organized to get together the next night. I called her up and she said, "Oh, sorry! I'd love to but I already made plans with my friend." I was like, "That didn't cross your mind when you made plans with me YESTERDAY?" "I know I'm so sorry!" *click* I had a cool flake about 2 months ago:

Everything went really well and we organized to get together the next night. I called her up and she said, “Oh, sorry! I’d love to but I already made plans with my friend.”

I was like, “That didn’t cross your mind when you made plans with me YESTERDAY?”

“I know I’m so sorry!”

*click*

]]> By: Jim http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-650 Jim Thu, 09 Aug 2007 02:16:29 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-650 I had a great flake this last sunday. My best ever. There is a cute bartender at an upscale restaurant that I've been chatting up for the last few months. When I was in there last week, I was reading a weekly and came to an ad for an art showing. I asked her to join me. She said yes. She then suggested Sunday, as it was her only day off. I said "OK, 1:30, I'll pick you up then" and she said OK. I arrive at her house at 1:35 and nobody was home. I called and there was no answer. I went to the art showing anyways and I got a text message about an hour later where she said something like: "I'm so sorry, but I was at the beauty shop and I totally forgot". No other message and no other call. Beat that! I had a great flake this last sunday. My best ever. There is a cute bartender at an upscale restaurant that I’ve been chatting up for the last few months. When I was in there last week, I was reading a weekly and came to an ad for an art showing. I asked her to join me. She said yes. She then suggested Sunday, as it was her only day off. I said “OK, 1:30, I’ll pick you up then” and she said OK. I arrive at her house at 1:35 and nobody was home. I called and there was no answer. I went to the art showing anyways and I got a text message about an hour later where she said something like: “I’m so sorry, but I was at the beauty shop and I totally forgot”. No other message and no other call.

Beat that!

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