Comments on: This Is How To Eliminate Flaking and Get Those Dates http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/ Fri, 23 Dec 2011 23:12:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Amir http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-56468 Amir Wed, 12 Oct 2011 03:56:04 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-56468 You can't "banish" flakes. Thats like saying you can get rid bad weather. It's going to happen. Just have a minumum of 10 phone numbers so that way if a few of them fall off you'll have more than your share of backup. I liked this read until i got to the bottom where, of course, the author creates a problem and then trys to sell the solution. Anybody with common sense would know the key to "eliminating" flakes is having a deep inventory of active phone numbers. You can’t “banish” flakes. Thats like saying you can get rid bad weather. It’s going to happen. Just have a minumum of 10 phone numbers so that way if a few of them fall off you’ll have more than your share of backup. I liked this read until i got to the bottom where, of course, the author creates a problem and then trys to sell the solution. Anybody with common sense would know the key to “eliminating” flakes is having a deep inventory of active phone numbers.

]]> By: Fellow brother http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-55469 Fellow brother Tue, 11 Oct 2011 02:28:08 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-55469 I'm pretty sure I'm dealing with an identical b*tch right now I’m pretty sure I’m dealing with an identical b*tch right now

]]> By: frank http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-4725 frank Thu, 23 Jun 2011 18:25:44 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-4725 this girl lives in my apartment complex. last week we made plans to hike in griffith park. i ran into her in the parking gargage 2 days ago and confirmed our hike today at 11. texted her last night and she confirmed. she texts me this morning (about 9am) and says she's super hungover she thinks we should postpone. i text her, "cmon we'll go for a short hike. itll be good for ya" she texts " oh lord, no way. im really dying" i dont text anything back. do you guys think this was a flake move by her? do you think i lost DLV'd by trying to get her to still meet me up? how do y'all think i should follow up? what if i run into her in the building, what do you think i should say? i'd appreciate any feedback, thanks this girl lives in my apartment complex. last week we made plans to hike in griffith park. i ran into her in the parking gargage 2 days ago and confirmed our hike today at 11. texted her last night and she confirmed. she texts me this morning (about 9am) and says she’s super hungover she thinks we should postpone.
i text her, “cmon we’ll go for a short hike. itll be good for ya”
she texts ” oh lord, no way. im really dying”

i dont text anything back.

do you guys think this was a flake move by her? do you think i lost DLV’d by trying to get her to still meet me up?
how do y’all think i should follow up? what if i run into her in the building, what do you think i should say?
i’d appreciate any feedback, thanks

]]> By: Jesse http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1130 Jesse Sun, 27 Feb 2011 08:15:24 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1130 So, I had a flake as well. Maybe my case could be different since I did it in a different country? Anyway, I live in South Korea, and I am an English teacher here. I frequent at Starbucks and I noticed one of the workers kept looking at me. I was not sure if it was her just being nice, or wanting to flirt. Being single and interested as well, I spoke in Korean, introduced myself and did more smart talk. She said that she noticed I frequent the store often and her female friends that work with her were interested in us all hanging out. In my mind, my goal was to go out with her only, but inviting her friends along seemed like what girls do when they don't know complete strangers well. Going with it all, I agreed, got her number and just sent a text message to greet and see how her day was going the next day. She responded late in the day, which was cool. I then decided to call-- there was no response. I sent a text the next day, starting small talk-- again, no response. So, now, I am debating whether I should go back to the Starbucks or not. I don't want to appear as a stalker. What do you guys think? So, I had a flake as well. Maybe my case could be different since I did it in a different country? Anyway, I live in South Korea, and I am an English teacher here. I frequent at Starbucks and I noticed one of the workers kept looking at me. I was not sure if it was her just being nice, or wanting to flirt. Being single and interested as well, I spoke in Korean, introduced myself and did more smart talk. She said that she noticed I frequent the store often and her female friends that work with her were interested in us all hanging out. In my mind, my goal was to go out with her only, but inviting her friends along seemed like what girls do when they don’t know complete strangers well. Going with it all, I agreed, got her number and just sent a text message to greet and see how her day was going the next day. She responded late in the day, which was cool. I then decided to call– there was no response. I sent a text the next day, starting small talk– again, no response. So, now, I am debating whether I should go back to the Starbucks or not. I don’t want to appear as a stalker. What do you guys think?

]]> By: Fred http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1129 Fred Sat, 05 Feb 2011 23:55:42 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1129 Every now and then I made a lunch appointment with a cute female co-worker. When the lunch time came she flaked on me several times saying that she forgot and that she had made a lunch appointment with a client in the meantime. And me being the complete wussy back then said: "This is no problem. Clients are important, go and have lunch with him. We'll go another time." ARGH!!! Please all slap me hard!!! She even joked and said: "I guess I owe you a meal now." But I was such a wuss that I thought I'd be a gentleman and not cash her in on this so that I don't seem greedy to her. Every now and then I made a lunch appointment with a cute female co-worker. When the lunch time came she flaked on me several times saying that she forgot and that she had made a lunch appointment with a client in the meantime. And me being the complete wussy back then said: “This is no problem. Clients are important, go and have lunch with him. We’ll go another time.” ARGH!!! Please all slap me hard!!! She even joked and said: “I guess I owe you a meal now.” But I was such a wuss that I thought I’d be a gentleman and not cash her in on this so that I don’t seem greedy to her.

]]> By: Herb Ross http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1128 Herb Ross Tue, 18 Jan 2011 04:19:46 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1128 I had a flake where the girl and i had been talking for a bit and hanging out ocassionaly all seemed well she even told me she liked me. We were supposed to meet up for coffee at school, apparently she slept in (we weren't suppposed to meet till 1:30) i was like whatever. Next time i said you want to go out for coffee, she says ya forsure its been a while since we hung out, so later that night i said so we going to go to coffee still forsure she says ya. I leave work early that day, text her no answer, wait a bit, call her no answer, go on facebook a bit later shes on, her excuse was she had just gotten home, she slept at her friends they were drinkign the night before and her phoen died. Thats when i cut that shady b*tch off. I had a flake where the girl and i had been talking for a bit and hanging out ocassionaly all seemed well she even told me she liked me. We were supposed to meet up for coffee at school, apparently she slept in (we weren’t suppposed to meet till 1:30) i was like whatever. Next time i said you want to go out for coffee, she says ya forsure its been a while since we hung out, so later that night i said so we going to go to coffee still forsure she says ya. I leave work early that day, text her no answer, wait a bit, call her no answer, go on facebook a bit later shes on, her excuse was she had just gotten home, she slept at her friends they were drinkign the night before and her phoen died. Thats when i cut that shady b*tch off.

]]> By: Jansen http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1127 Jansen Sun, 16 Jan 2011 07:17:38 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1127 Gentleman love the interseting flake stories. I just wanted to add that I've had, although rare, flakes even as late as date 4 or 5. Never Know for sure but they have happened and even late and I just cut 'em loose no matter when the first flake occurs. Too weird just always let 'em know you invite someone else if it's your closing line then great! Crazy b!tches;) Gentleman love the interseting flake stories. I just wanted to add that I’ve had, although rare, flakes even as late as date 4 or 5. Never Know for sure but they have happened and even late and I just cut ‘em loose no matter when the first flake occurs. Too weird just always let ‘em know you invite someone else if it’s your closing line then great! Crazy b!tches;)

]]> By: deez http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1126 deez Sun, 29 Aug 2010 03:25:05 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1126 Well, this sucks. I met a girl at the bookstore. We met the next day for 6 hours talking. Next day we hung at her house. 5th day she invited me over for midnite makeout. I slept over, then left for school. She said she was busy the next two days. She said lets meet the 7th day. Never called or texted, i called no answer. She texts me Is there something wrong? I told her to packup. not call me again. Its just too rude when you get involved at the bedroom and the 4th date is a flake. So I moved on pretty fast, I didnt want to wait and hear excuses. I dont know, I just call BS. Oh well. Well, this sucks.
I met a girl at the bookstore.
We met the next day for 6 hours talking.
Next day we hung at her house.
5th day she invited me over for midnite makeout.
I slept over, then left for school.
She said she was busy the next two days.
She said lets meet the 7th day. Never called or texted, i called no answer.
She texts me Is there something wrong?
I told her to packup.
not call me again.
Its just too rude when you get involved at the bedroom and the 4th date is a flake.
So I moved on pretty fast, I
didnt want to wait and hear excuses.
I dont know, I just call BS.
Oh well.

]]> By: jess http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1125 jess Wed, 09 Jun 2010 18:20:24 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1125 ok so i have a question for you boys. so me and this guy are constantly flaking on each other but we keep saying how we want to see each other. We make plans almost everyday but we haven't seen each other for two weeks. we had sex about 5 months ago and then we both dated other people because i moved away for a few months but now i'm back and we started it back up but he has slept over twice and nothing. Is it more that he doesn't want to hangout and feels bad so he makes plans...? ok so i have a question for you boys. so me and this guy are constantly flaking on each other but we keep saying how we want to see each other. We make plans almost everyday but we haven’t seen each other for two weeks. we had sex about 5 months ago and then we both dated other people because i moved away for a few months but now i’m back and we started it back up but he has slept over twice and nothing. Is it more that he doesn’t want to hangout and feels bad so he makes plans…?

]]> By: 0rion http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1124 0rion Mon, 22 Feb 2010 00:59:33 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2007/08/08/this-is-how-to-eliminate-flaking-and-get-those-dates/#comment-1124 I had a strange situation I meet the target spent 25-30 min moving from A2 to A3 and finally into C1 I was running the cube gambit with the target. I felt that I was spending to much time on one target and should break off and work the room. Picked up a few other numbers. My wing was getting not having an on night and wanted to leave. I went for he phone number from the target I just called and the call went to voice mail not knowing what to do I didn't leave a message what to do next? Thx 0 I had a strange situation I meet the target spent 25-30 min moving from A2 to A3 and finally into C1 I was running the cube gambit with the target. I felt that I was spending to much time on one target and should break off and work the room. Picked up a few other numbers. My wing was getting not having an on night and wanted to leave. I went for he phone number from the target I just called and the call went to voice mail not knowing what to do I didn’t leave a message what to do next?

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