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Have you ever wondered why many of the emails you send out DON’T get responded to?

You are not alone!

Well, do yourself a big favor…

DO NOT sign up to any online personals site UNTIL you read this post.

I’m about to share some VERY VALUABLE tips it would be wise for you to know…

If you’re like many guys who write me, you’re probably THROWING AWAY HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS on online personals sites right now that you could have easily saved!

Money I bet you can’t afford to waste…

Here’s the scoop:

One of the biggest downsides to the paid online personals sites is many of the women on the site are what I call WINDOW SHOPPERS.

These are women who are non subscribers, yet have a profile posted on the site.

Unfortunately, you have no way of knowing WHO is subscribed and who isn’t — which is a problem because if she’s not a paying member, then she can’t even READ your email!

TALK ABOUT A PAIN IN THE REAR END!

This of course works to the sites favor and is one of the biggest revenue sources for online personals websites and gets many guys to signup.

I can’t even begin to tell you how much money I shelled out over the years on online personals sites before I figured this out.

Picture this:

You log into an online personals site…

You see a bunch of women you might be interested in and think to yourself “Wow, there’s a lot women on here I can contact.”

So you sign up for an account.

Then you fire off a bunch of emails, sit back and wait for replies.

What you don’t know is you have no way of knowing which women are even able to READ your emails.

As you can probably imagine, if a woman can’t read your email, there’s no way she can reply to it.

Needless to say, this isn’t only FRUSTRATING but it can be a MASSIVE problem for guys on the sites.

… UNLESS YOU KNOW HOW TO USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE

On match.com for instance, only PAID members can read and respond to your emails.

(This wasn’t always the case)

You of course, have no way of knowing which of the women are members, and which ones aren’t.

It’s frustrating to send emails and get nothing back, isn’t it?

What’s EVEN WORSE is you really have NO WAY of knowing if she’s just not interested, or if she isn’t a member and can’t even read your message.

So you’re left wondering…

I really think you need to pay CLOSE ATTENTION to what I’m about to share with you.

Here’s the bit you might already know: sites like match.com have a feature which allow you to see who’s opened your emails. I believe its an add on to your monthly membership… I think $5 a month.

HOW CAN YOU USE THIS TO YOUR ADVANTAGE

If you notice many of your emails are being opened, but you rarely get replies to them — SOMETHING in your email is the problem.

I mean, if you keep sending the same emails and not getting responses, what you’re sending probably isn’t working.

Makes sense, right?

You don’t have to sit in the dark and wonder why your emails aren’t being responded to.

Now for our little ‘tweak’… Something you’re sending is NOT working, so fix it.

Here’s how …

Go back and pull a couple of the emails you recently sent, then start to change various parts of your email.

Then send a few of them out an monitor them.

Once you figure out the right combination, In no time flat you’ll start to get more responses to your emails.

Instead of a long email, try a shorter version.

Instead of saying you have something in common, try ruffling some feathers.

Instead of using someone else’s template, try writing something just like you talk.

Very often the guys who are crushing it meeting women online are doing *something* other guys aren’t (they might be SLIGHTLY tweaking the same emails you send, they use a particular buzz word, etc.)

Try it right now with some of the emails you’ve been sending out and see what I mean.

Very often after making a few slight changes you will find the right changes that will allow you to generate a staggering amount of responses.

In some cases, just changing 1 word in my emails resulted in a dramatic increase in email responses.

Try it and let me know what happens.

Your Friend,

Dave M
Insider Internet Dating

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