How To Beat Premature Ejaculation and Have The Best Sex Ever

Dave (not David Deangelo) Van Arrick has just released a killer CD set to help guys overcome limitations on the sexual side of life. I’ve heard a few of the CDs pre-launch, and they’re awesome for dealing with it. The funny thing is, I was under the impression that premature ejaculation was just on American Pie films, but I heard a statistic that over 75% of men deal with this problem? Wait, is that right?

Check it out, and go to his site to listen to some sample clips direct from the program. Here is Dave on the topic:

Have You Ever Heard of CRESTING? What about AUTOGENIC TRAINING?

If you’re like most guys, the answer is a resounding no. Consequently, most men are painfully unaware of the numerous ways they can prolong their ejaculation time, while boosting their sexual performance and “staying power”

Chronic ignorance of these important types of techniques regularly produces less than stellar results in the bedroom, leaving our hapless hero disappointed, unsatisfied embarrassed and often feeling completely emasculated in front of his woman who is often lying there waiting hungering for an orgasm that never comes.

Leaving your woman in this condition is one of the most DANGEROUS things you can do to her.

Why?

Because an orgasmless, chronically frustrated and sexually starved woman is a prime candidate for becoming an UNFAITHFUL, “CHEATING WOMAN”.

And if you think your woman is different the odds are…

YOU ARE DEAD WRONG!

The hard truth is my friend, that if you can’t satisfy her needs, then her own inner psychological and biological mechanisms and hungers WILL DRIVE HER to seek it in the arms (and other body parts) of another man.

Such is the tragedy of the AVERAGE AMERICAN MALE.

In fact, the problem of poor sexual performance is so widespread that in a poll, 93% of men asked, said they’d really love to last longer in bed before ejaculating – but 100% of those men were completely clueless as to how they could do it.

In fact most guys BELIEVE its just plain impossible.

Well amigo, I have some great news for you!

Nothing could be further from the truth.

Actually, the fact of the matter is that curing premature ejaculation, lasting longer and increasing your level of performance during sexual intercourse is not only possible but also very easy to accomplish, (with a little knowledge, guidance, and practice of course.)

The plain fact is that with the right kind of training you can have COMPLETE Control over your erection, your ejaculation time and even enjoy multiple orgasms.

That means a lot more sexual pleasure for you and complete sexual satisfaction for your lady complete with bragging rights!

Want to know more?

So, now that we know you are really serious about becoming a master lover, Let’s take a look at one sexual method that can give you massive control over your arousal levels and always give you the choice of when to cum or not.

As many of your reading this article are painfully aware; During sex, most men quickly begin to lose control of themselves (in terms of ejaculation!) at around the 2 or 3 minute mark – which is usually a long way from any woman’s orgasmic boiling point. And we both know how humiliating and frustrating it is when we “blow our loads” before she is even close to orgasm don’t we?

So, that’s usually the first point at which you’ll use the technique I am about to share with you. It involves two steps. The first takes place in your mind – which is the root of many a guy’s sexual performance problems.

1. When you first feel those telltale sensations in your penis (the heightened sensitivity and energy that let you know that if you carry on doing what you’re doing you’ll soon explode)

DON’T PANIC!!!

RELAX.

Too many men actually push themselves over the edge and into premature ejaculating simply because they mentally begin to panic when they feel they are close to orgasm.

Panic rushes through their heads creating all kinds of performance sapping internal dialogue such as:

“Uh oh, I’m gonna blow!”

Oh god, I can’t hold it much longer”

“I hope she cums quick!” and “Not again, this is going to be embarrassing.”
Instead of allowing this negative stress induced internal dialogue make you lose control of yourself. Simple become aware of that evil little voice. Take a deep breath. And tell yourself its time to use this little known technique for slowing down your arousal and amplifying hers like there is not tomorrow. I call it the “Earth Mover“

2. The part of your penis that plays the biggest part in premature ejaculation is the head or glans of your penis. The first thing we have to do is minimize the stimulation so that your body can begin to move back down the arousal scale (see ForeverMan for details).

This accomplishes two things, (actually more than two but the article is too short for much detail)

First it keeps you from ejaculating, second it allows you more sexual control overall.

So how do we accomplish this miracle?

To decrease the stimulation to the head of the penis without interrupting your woman’s orgasmic processes — slowly and deeply thrust into your woman, as far as you can go and only as far as she can pleasurably take. Keep in mind that as deep as you can go is not necessarily as deep as is comfortable for your woman, use some sensory acuity here.

Now, once you have found how deep you can go without hurting or injuring your woman, bring your hips and pelvis together with hers as close and as tight as you can. Now the secret to this technique is not what you might think. Most guys think that the deep thrust is what brings your woman to orgasm…

NO, like I say in Secret Orgasm Tips. If you are trying to use your penis to bring your woman to orgasm…

You are swinging the wrong sword amigo!

Once you are as deep inside her as you can go, you need to angle your body so that the angle formed by your pubic bone and your erect penis perfectly contours her clitoris. Your mind while using this technique should be on that part of your body. Use a heavy pressure but a slow deep rotational stroking. The key here is slow, heavy and deep.

This pulls allot of stimulation away from the head of your penis, increasing your control and prolonging your ejaculation time, while simultaneously targeting the exact part of your woman’s anatomy that needs direct sexual stimulation during intercourse—her clitoris!

To her, this feels intensely erotic and sensual arousing her even faster, and when she orgasms you become the sexual hero she’s always wanted! I elaborate more on this method in ForeverMan – How to Beat Premature Ejaculation and Have The Best Sex Ever!

However, in addition to giving your woman the sexual stimulation that WILL lead her to orgasm you are also simultaneously decreasing the amount of stimulation to the head of your penis.

You see most people don’t realize this but a woman’s vaginal anatomy (specifically the area closest to the opening) is naturally designed to give maximum stimulation to the head of a man’s penis.

By thrusting deeply you push the head of your penis beyond this very dangerous zone and allow the shaft of your penis (which is not as sensitive) to come in contact with that portion of her vagina, decreasing your stimulation, and enabling you to last longer.

Then, to cap it off, you grind and rotate your pelvis (I tend to use a circular direction when I perform this) instead of thrusting in and out, which further decreases the intense sensations of sex. After 30 seconds or so, you will notice your arousal levels dropping off a bit giving you more control and allowing you to be able to start thrusting again should you so desire.

By using this technique, you’re able to control your urge to pop without stopping sex and while giving your partner the precise type of extra sexual stimulation she needs.

Now how much better a technique is that for tackling premature ejaculation when compared to what most people consider to be effective techniques? Things like: “Count backward from 100″ and “Thinking of dead puppies!”

Sex, comes really in two flavors “Type 1 sex” is simply for pro-creation and nobody really needs any advanced sexual training to do that effectively, Ole Mom Nature took care of that for us. But the Second flavor of sexuality, or what I call “CREATIVE SEXUAL EXPRESSION” is all about fun, connection and intimacy.

Unfortunately Ole Mother Nature didn’t do such a hot job equipping the average guy for that form of sexual activity, but have no fear! Using the 2-step technique above, you can both fully enjoy all of your sexual experiences – without the worry of it all being over too soon!

David Van Arrick is one of the worlds leading authorities on advanced sexual technique and helps men deal with premature ejaculation and other sexual performance issues.

He is the author of The Best Selling Home Study Courses “Secret Orgasm Tips” and “ForeverMan – How To Beat Premature Ejaculation and Have the Best Sex Ever!“