Maximizing Your Email Response Rate With Online Dating

by Editor on May 23, 2007

I have 3 questions for you:

1) How many e-mails does it take to get one RESPONSE from a woman on an online dating site?

2) How many responses does it take to get a woman’s PHONE NUMBER?

3) How many phone numbers (and phone calls) does it require to get a woman interested enough to GO ON A DATE with you?

In a nutshell, how long does it take you to get one date through the online dating sites?

If you’re like most men, it takes dozens of e-mails (and sometimes, hundreds) to get one response, if any.

That’s because most women who are at least decently attractive get 30 to 50 e-mails a day from men, and the ones who are very attractive get even more.

As a result, they delete most of their incoming e-mail unless there’s something in them that stops them dead in their tracks.

This may be the reason why 97% of the men who join online dating sites quit within the first 3 months, according to Jupiter Research.

They spend hours online fishing for women, but they get only a few bites, if any – and usually, they’re from women who aren’t desirable to them.

Let’s analyze the numbers a bit further.

If you’re like most men, it would take 5 email responses from women (or more) to get one phone number. And it would take 10 phone numbers (and phone calls) to get one woman to go on a date with you.

All told, it would take hundreds of e-mails to generate the responses and phone numbers that will result in a single date.

And that’s an undertaking that takes HOURS to do. The question remains: Is it really worth HOURS of your time to get a single date through the online dating sites?

At least one guy I know has found the whole online dating process too tedious that he said, “It’s enough to drive men to a house of prostitution to get away from the hassle of getting dates online.”

Now how about you? How does your batting average compare with these average Joes? Are you doing any better?

What if I told you that in just 20 minutes per week, I can show you how to get more dates than you can handle?

The key is to maximize every single interaction you have with women on the online dating sites so that you can have MORE RESULTS IN LESS TIME – and that’s exactly what I show you in my Insider Internet Dating program.

I also show you how I easily get 30 to 50 dates a month when other men average 1 or 2 a month – if they’re lucky. .

Now, imagine being in front of your computer, logging onto an online dating site and finding a drop-dead gorgeous woman that you’re really interested in.

I’ll show you how you can easily…

* Spend just 2 minutes typing out an e-mail to her that will make her instantly interested in you and give you her phone number.

* Call her on the phone without fear or nervousness, and in under 15 minutes, get her to say “Yes” to a date with you

* Get her out on a date, wherein she not only enjoys being with you but feels strangely intimate with you — even if it’s only your first date

* Get her to be attracted to you – even if you’re an average-looking or physically unattractive guy – and want to hold hands with you, kiss you, and maybe agree to a ‘more physical’ encounter

You can just glide effortlessly through the above steps – and get date after date with any woman you want whenever you want — when you get your hands on my Insider Internet Dating program.

It’s as easy as following a paint-by-numbers system – and when you follow it, you’re guaranteed to get dates every time.

So what are you waiting for?

Try the Insider Internet Dating program risk-free for 45 days. If it doesn’t do for you everything I said it would do, I want you to return it for a full refund – and keep the free bonus that I provide with your purchase.

There’s nothing to lose – except a life with no dates.

Dave M

{ 5 comments… read them below or add one }

Anonymous May 24, 2007 at 7:53 am

Internet dating is bullshit.

Hot women can get a relationship or a fuck any time they want from work, school, parties, or mutual friends.

The ones who are online have something WRONG with them that they can’t meet men in person. They’re either frigid, psycho, or socially retarded. They are the LEFTOVERS who can’t get a man or don’t really want a man. They’re exactly the type of women whom you’d dismiss with, “Nice meeting you,” within 30 seconds of approaching them in a bar or bookstore.

Dave M claims to have gone on hundreds of dates. Any guy who has “success” with internet dating doesn’t have time to go on hundreds of dates because he’s too busy FUCKING, not DATING.

The internet can get you plenty of dates if you have a good profile, know a few tactics, and are an otherwise cool guy. Maybe that’s what you want if you don’t have experience dating women. But if you want to get laid, meeting women in-person, NOT online, is the most efficient use of time.

Sure, online is easy to GET dates, but actually DATING them is a huge waste of time.

You realistically only have time for ONE date per night. At most, that’s 7 per week. In a bar, you get 10-12 sets. That’s 24 sets per weekend (72 women total if 3 per set).

Would you rather meet 7 women over 7 days or 72 women over 2 days? Would you rather be able to dimiss ill-suited women within 30 seconds of meeting them or spend an hour on a bad date?

Peter May 24, 2007 at 12:26 pm

You contradicted yourself in that comment.

You said, “Any guy who has “success” with internet dating doesn’t have time to go on hundreds of dates because he’s too busy FUCKING, not dating”

Then you said, “But if you want to get laid, meeting women in-person, NOT online, is the most efficient use of time.”

So internet dating is good for fucking but not dating? So if you get good at online dating, then be prepared to fuck, and not to date?

Dave May 3, 2009 at 3:53 pm

Or you can do the wise thing and head to a place like hotel del rey in san jose costa rica for a week, and you’ll get exactly what you want.

xavier October 31, 2009 at 9:07 am

Its true, if a man is socially inclined to meet women thru mutual friendship @ parties, gatherings, or social clubs ie: gym, church, or even school his chances increase to get a date and possibly laid. Internet may or may not increase those chances unless you already know the person for ex: facebook, myspace etc… online dating is somewhat risky but even more so for the women cause of meeting psychos or weirdos. So in essence online dating is a last resort for ex: if ur new to a location and have no friends or family to introduce u to meeting ppl. thats just my take on it.

john December 7, 2009 at 7:23 am

I have found internet dating to be one of the most sole destroying tasks in my life. Having come out of a long term relationship and being shy with approaching women in clubs I tried this avenue. I got no contacts from women and the odd reply after sending many more friendly open ended first emails. These occassional replies lead to some back and forth emails before ending in nothing, when you asked to meet they dissappear. Now I class myself as athletic build, average looks and good career. I thought I would have faired better but the lack of ‘attention’ has left me wondering if I actually look like quazzy modo. My skin is becomming thicker though, but is still healing a bit. No wonder prostitution exists. :)

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