Seducing Women in the Daytime
By Gambler
Most men restrict themselves to meeting women in bars and clubs on a weekend. But wouldn’t it be nice if you could meet women all the time, every time you are out of your house. Adding the ability to do this will increase the number of women you can seduce massively, and the best part is, it’s easier!
Day time seductions have lots of benefits and differences compared to night game:
* The girls are usually on their own (they probably won’t be in the night!).
* The girls are not used to getting hit on in this situation so don’t have a negative attitude towards it.
* You will be getting the real person – most people have a persona that they adopt in a club.
* Because you are both sober and being yourselves, any number you get in the day-time is a lot more solid.
* Meeting a guy in the day is a lot more romantic than “the dude in the club”.
* You meet girls that don’t ever go to clubs – a different type of girl. You also meet clubby girls too!
The process for a night-time pickup is very different, here’s what you need to do in the day-time:
1. Start the conversation without putting too much pressure on her
The above is a must, if you can be funny too, then great. By pressure I mean asking her a personal question, displaying too much interest, or otherwise putting her under pressure. It needs to be very natural and relaxed. Canned lines and cheesy chat up lines are going to bomb. The best thing to do is say something situational, or to pace the conversation in her head. If she is looking at soup, talk about soup first, if she is waiting around in the cold, talk about waiting around in the cold. Examples of good opening lines would be:
Bookshop: “Do you know where the X section is? Oh you are so hired/fired as my librarian”.
Supermarket: “I’m useless with wine and have someone coming for dinner who knows their stuff, can you recommend me a wine to go with…”.
2. Keep on talking until she opens up
So you have said something, the tendency now is to ask a bunch of questions. Don’t do that until she is comfortable talking to you. Do most of the talking, follow up your opening line with something that naturally follows. Notice things about her and comment on them. Make assumptions about what she is doing. After a while you will reach a point where her body language opens up and she starts to offer more to the interaction because she has gotten used to the (admittedly strange) situation.
3. Find Connections
Find things you share in common – interests, likes, and hobbies. You can get away with more personal questions once she has committed to the interaction. Now you are looking for a good opportunity – something you could do together.
4. Get the number
If you find a common interest, suggest you do that together. If not, use the universal “we should hang out sometime”, if she agrees, hand her your phone!
Get good at seducing women in the day-time and you’ll be able to have a date every day of the week without going to crowded bars and clubs!
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Comment by Mike on 30 April 2007:
But in the clubs, there is a pretty good chance the girl is going to be single, whereas in the daytime you don’t know. Also, isn’t a girl gonna think you’re a creep?
Comment by Ice on 3 May 2007:
Yes I like this post, many of us married don’t go clubing much . However majority of the LRs in seduction forums are realted to Bar/Club PUs, which i for one can’t relate to in present. I wish i could read more non Bar/club Day time PUs and learn from them, as most of my PUs are on London tube(subway), bookshops, street, banks, internet etc etc. Another good post from Gambler.
Comment by Lele on 18 May 2007:
I really like this post, actually I do so much better during daytime. And also it makes your day to day life much more pleasureble. On what the first guy said (mike), You know most girls feeel flattered even if they are on a relationship; that doesnt mean that they are going to go out with you if they have a boyfriend, but the point is that it is ok, and even if the girl has a BF you boos tyour confidence (if the interaction is good, of course) and if she doesnt have a boyfriend and the interaction is good then yor own; another benefit I found doing apoaches in daytime is that it takes so much presure in Nighttime, because you have more options, and you are mmore fluid. Gambler tks for the post sincerely, Lele
Comment by Miguel on 24 May 2007:
hello seduction chronicles! this article caught my eye, and it’s a great reference for anyone who wants to approach women in the day. I agree with the guys here, that approaching women in the day is better, than the night. A lot of girls hang out in many places you wouldn’t normally consider: supermarkets, restaurants, beach, the street, even next-door! This is a great guide. The great thing about daytime is that the girls you encounter are different than the ones in the club. And your confidence builds as you go through daytime seducing. Thanks for this one! I’ll print this one out.
Comment by Babis on 8 September 2007:
I totally agree with your points you build up here Gambler.In addition of thoughts people posted, I am going to mention that most of the time,girls approached during the day do not feel what they expect to when going to the club.I mean beeing oftenly approached there,something which could not seem usual while hanging out by the day.