One topic that people seem to ask me to talk about over and over again is the issue of “the friend zone.” People especially want to know how to avoid getting into the friend zone (especially when they are out on a date).

Asking that question alone means that you need to take a good look at your mindset. Think about that question: How do I avoid the friend zone when I am out on a date? Look at what you just said to yourself.

You’re out on a date with a woman. She is not looking at you as a friend if she accepted the date from you in the first place.

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Excerpt from a recent editorial from Askmen.com.

The recent trend toward men with androgynous characteristics may be due to women’s subconscious rejection of the previously celebrated alpha males. Some PUAs already wear the Adam Lambert-manliner. Is the next logical step to blend more feminine attributes into their alpha to make it more easily digestible? Or possibly the same techniques may appear fresh again if presented in a bumbling Seth Rogen-esque manner? The bromantic comedy boom could inspire a new wave of PUAs that look like AFCs. You could be a Trojan Horse of seduction. The woman thinks she’s gotten the gift of a new unintimidating male friend when suddenly a secret chamber bursts open and from it pours sublime seduction skills. Before she knows it, she’s Katherine Heigl in Knocked Up (hopefully without the pregnancy part).

Can you predict the next generation of PUAs and their new bag of tricks? Or do you think the era described in The Game is still in full effect?

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Our friend Dr. Paul was featured on the new online edition of MensHealth.com. Dr. Paul was featured as one of “Americas Coolest Jobs”.

Check out the photos here.

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Let’s be realistic.

Most guys that read this blog post will give away their resolutions within a month.

But, I’d like to hear what they are, because we as seduction community guys know that we can make goals at ANY TIME during the year.

So what are your goals that will effect your life with women and dating? What new skillsets or challenges will you conquer this year?

Post your goals and resolutions in the form of a comment below

Mine are: 1. Girlfriend 2. Be more comfortable in bars/clubs with a. meeting girls b. making more friends 3. Organize house parties at my house and get them full.

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provided by Gypsy from The StyleLife Academy.

When text messaging keep in mind that, just like in face to face encounters with a woman, there are rules to know and follow.

Rule 1: Don’t text to avoid phone conversation.

Many guys, especially those just entering the social arts, see texting as a safer arena for contacting woman than calling them. This is understandable, but unacceptable. If you’ve just met and number closed a woman, then your next goal is to have a day two. The likelihood that you will set this up with her via text message is lower than if you call her and build more comfort verbally.

Also, if you’re texting because of your fear of interacting with this woman, then how will you ever hope to interact with her comfortably face to face?

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